Why is it so hard to find encouragement and to give encouragement? I am not talking about empty flattery, but words that reach down into the soul of another and bring light and hope. Every day I need someone to come to me with words that build me up. We are so prone to sarcasm, which while not always meant to harm, sarcasm can tear down.
Hebrews 3:13 says, “But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today”, that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.” The writer acknowledges the importance of encouragement, which he calls exhortation. Encouragement from others plays a vital role in keeping us from sin. Without encouragement we may seek fulfillment in sinful pleasures. The writer also states that encouragement is needed daily.
We all need encouragement and we all need it every day. But we also need to be encouragers every day. Try this for one day: leave sarcasm and complaining behind and give someone real encouragement. I guarantee that you will have a positive effect on the person you encourage. I also guarantee that your words will have a positive effect on you.
Reluctant Retiree 