It is pretty easy to find recordings and videos of people responding to some perceived injustice with loud voices of displeasure, often including outrageous threats. These people are out of control and extremely overreacting. They feel that they have been wronged and they want the situation rectified immediately and to their satisfaction. Somehow they believe that loud voices and threats are the way to accomplish their goals.
The Bible says that “a soft answer turns away wrath.” A soft answer is sometimes hard to give when we feel wronged in some way. But we have more instruction than this command to help us. Jesus said, “I am gentle and lowly.” He is our example. When wrongly accused and eventually murdered on the cross, Jesus’ response was, “Father, forgive them!” When we reject God and go our own way, God is always ready to give us mercy.
It is interesting that we all want people to respond to our failures with patience and kindness, but we are so quickly angered by the faults of others. Ephesians 4:2 says, “Be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.” The next time you are wronged by someone, try waiting to respond. While you are waiting think about Jesus’ example of mercy and kindness toward you. And ask Him to help you respond with the same gentleness and humility.
Reluctant Retiree 