The noise of blaming others for the problems we face is deafening. “It’s Trump’s fault”. “Biden’s to blame”. “Democrats caused these problems”. “Republicans messed this country up”. “They hurt me, so I had to…” “They said that and I was offended, so I…” “The economy is bad so I stole… to survive”. Lots of words, plenty of excuses, but little accountability for our own actions.
Proverbs 19:3 says, “When a man’s folly brings his way to ruin, his heart rages against the Lord.” When something bad happens to us, it is natural for us to lash out at others and even against God. It is natural, but not helpful. We must examine ourselves to evaluate how we contributed to the problem.
We cannot always easily fix the problems that others cause, but we can take responsibility for our own weaknesses and move to correct our errors. So often the problem starts with us. Understanding our own weaknesses and failures is fundamental to having a relationship with God. We must confess our sins and accept His forgiveness. Pride wants us to prevent us from humbly coming to God in this way, but God does not receive us any other way. We must stop blaming others and God for our troubles, but seek the wisdom and understanding that God provides.
In Hebrews 4:16 God promises: “Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” God’s infinite grace and mercy is found by humbly drawing close to Him.
Reluctant Retiree 