Finding good relationship models in our world is difficult. It brings us joy to know married couples that have been together for over 50 years. But how many friendships last even a decade? Now I know that changing life circumstances enter into this equation, but is there more to it than this simple explanation? What about the difficulties we have in family relationships?
The Bible, of course, has much to say about relationships. One of the best passages concerning relationships is found in Ephesians 4:1-2; “walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love.”
Wouldn’t our relationships be drastically changed if we all exhibited these character traits? Imagine if we were truly humble and considered the interests of others as more important than our own. What would change if, instead of lashing out in anger at someone, we were gentle in our responses? And how would our relationships be altered if we simply understand each other’s weaknesses and love each other enough to overlook them or help the other person in love?
If we sincerely made these changes in how we relate to one another, we would experience more peace, love, patience and mercy from others as well. Joy would surround us. Join me in asking God to give us more humility, gentleness, patience, and love by the power of His Holy Spirit. Ask Him to transform our relationships by transforming us.
Reluctant Retiree 