How many times have you heard the expression, “I am telling it like it is”? That is a bold statement affirming that the person has all the information available and an unbiased assessment of the facts. Very likely, the person is really only giving their opinion and it is based upon limited information. It is also very likely that the person is not speaking for the benefit of his audience, but rather to puff up his/her own pride.
Ephesians 4:15 says, “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.” We all know that we must be honest, speaking the truth. But do we also speak out of love, benefiting our listeners rather than out of selfishness to benefit ourselves. Speaking the truth also involves speaking out of a heart of love. Truth without love doesn’t benefit others.
Reluctant Retiree 