Somehow tearing down your opponent with accusations, both true and false, has become the accepted manner of debate in our society. If we disagree with someone, we use harsh words to attack their point of view and their character. Both sides of the debate use the same strategy. I am here to tell you that it doesn’t work and doesn’t convince anyone that your view is correct. It only entrenches the opposition deeper into their held beliefs.
II Timothy 2:24-25 says, “And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth.” God knows what it is like to hold strongly onto the truth. He also knows what it is like to face opposition. Because He knows and has experienced great opposition with evil intentions, He commands us to be kind and gentle with everyone. It is this demonstration of love that wins over those who hold opposing views, not harshness.
Reluctant Retiree 