Most gifts are given to benefit the receiver. But sometimes we can give a gift that also benefits the giver. For instance, a husband may give a gift to his wife that is related to her ability to cook something tasty for him. I don’t recommend this type of gift, but it does happen.
Proverbs 11:17 says, “A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself.” Kindness benefits the giver and receiver. God’s kindness to us is freely given, so we should freely and generously offer kindness to other people.
Reluctant Retiree 