I stumble over words that I say. Even when I have the best of intentions, the words I use may communicate harshness or disapproval. That is generally not what I intended to say. Gracious words are received joyfully and encourage the soul. Gracious speech patterns can earn us the favor of others and make many friends for us. Gracious words come out of a pure and compassionate heart.
Proverbs 22:11 says, “He who loves purity of heart, and whose speech is gracious, will have the king as his friend.” A pure heart and gracious words will gain the favor of many people and result in many lasting friendships.
Reluctant Retiree 