Humans are notoriously awful at judging the motives of other people. In fact, we can’t do that, because we only see the behavior and do not know the thoughts and experiences behind that behavior. We only observe the outward characteristics of a person and do not know the character of the person developed over time through a variety of circumstances and experiences.
In Exodus 33:19 God tells Moses, “I will make all my goodness pass before you and will proclaim before you my name ‘The Lord.’ And I will be gracious to whom I will be gracious, and will show mercy on whom I will show mercy.” God chooses to reveal His goodness, grace, and mercy to us. It is His declaration of His character. We can observe His character when our hearts and minds are alert to see Him move.
Reluctant Retiree 