As our children grow up, they relate to us in different ways. At first, they are completely dependent upon us and want to stay close to us. As they grow a little older, they begin to desire and demonstrate more and more independence. As teenagers, the relationship completely changes and often is one of tolerance, rather than appreciation. As they moved into adulthood, they realize that we have more to offer than they previously thought and begin to look upon us with respect. During this whole process, parents have a huge impact upon the lives of their children. We are trying to build them into the image of a confident and mature adult, with compassion for others and a love of God.
Psalm 100:3-4 says, “Know that the Lord, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name!” God considers all those who trust in Him to be His children. As His child, we were given new life in order to conform to His image and glorify Him. We are granted the honor of coming into His presence, but we should do so with thanksgiving and praise. When we come to Him, He provides the instruction, leading, and ability to become like Him as we spend time with Him.
Reluctant Retiree 