
Cut to the Heart

Thoughts on life and faith after unexpected life changes at an advanced age

Assuming you have loved someone and have been loved by someone, what are the qualities of love that have most affected you? Perhaps you have been overwhelmed by someone’s loyalty to you, staying with you when others have left. Maybe you have been the object of someone’s meaningful encouragement and support. And maybe you have been on the receiving end of that special someone’s unending generosity and help.
Psalm 103:8 says, “The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.” God’s love is multifaceted as described here in Psalm 103. God is rich in mercy and grace, always having plenty for our needs. He is patient with His children and slow to get angry with them. His love for us is abundant and steadfast, never wavering.

If you were asked, what constitutes a good friend? How would you respond? Would you immediately consider your friends and the qualities that make them good friends? Would you think about some of the great friendships of history and why they are considered good examples of friendship?
Psalm 145:13-14 says, “The Lord is faithful is all his words and kind in all his works. The Lord upholds all who are falling and raises up all who are bowed down.” What a friend we have in Jesus! He is always faithful in everything that He has said. He is always kind in everything that He does, holding us up when we feel like we are falling and raising us up when we feel like we are broken. If we simply trust Jesus, He will be the best friend we could ever hope to have.

Most of us have no problem telling others about the good things that we have done. Whether it be vacation details, awards received, athletic conquests, or compliments received, we generally do not hesitate to tell the stories to friends, family and acquaintances.
Psalm 145:4-6 says, “One generation shall commend your works to another, and shall declare your mighty acts. On the glorious splendor of your majesty, and on your wondrous works, I will meditate. They shall speak of the might of your awesome deeds, and I will declare your greatness.” God’s majesty can be seen in His wondrous works. Meditating on God’s splendor and mighty acts feeds our faith to believe Him for more awesome deeds. Then we can speak of His might and greatness to others.

One of the things that I don’t like about social media and smartphones is the overuse of notifications. Depending upon how you set up your phone and apps, you can receive notifications almost constantly. These notifications can be annoying as many are just spam notices trying to sell something.
II Chronicles 36:15 says, “The LORD, the God of their fathers, sent persistently to them by his messengers because he had compassion on his people and on his dwelling place.” God will repeatedly send His Word to you because He has compassion toward you in your weaknesses and wants you to come near to Him for hope and healing. His notifications are worth listening to, however, because they will lead us in the ways that we should go. Many of God’s notifications come as compassionate warnings to protect us from false and misleading paths.

As I age, like most people, I am saddened not only by physical weaknesses but also by the loss of mental acuity. My mind has begun to play mental tricks on me. For instance, I will enter a room and instantly forget why I came into the room. Or worse yet, get to the doorway and forget whether I was going in or coming out. Fortunately, my God suffers no such loss of mental power.
Psalm 139:2-5 says, “You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar. You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways. Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O LORD, you know it altogether. You hem me in, behind and before, and lay your hand upon me.” Whether we are doing the same old things or something new, God will lead your steps and hold you close to Him if only you will ask Him. He knows you better than you know yourself and will lead you in the best way. He knows all the possible paths that we can take and will lead us by His goodness and power.